This week’s "Not Too Old To Be Mum" is with Elisa from Only Elisa Knows.
First of all congratulations on your baby. How old were you when you had your baby/babies?
Thank you. I am 39 years old going 40 when I had my first baby. I conceived him at age 39 and give birth at the age of 40. It was 4 months to my 40th birthday.
Tell me a bit about yourself and your main reasons for having a child(ren) after the age of 35?
I am separated for more than 10 years. I am an emotionally battered wife. My ex-husband called me a swine which refers to a pig who cannot give birth. It is degrading as he created a rumour against me. I have no idea why we don't have a child for more than 13 years. Some said that our chromosomes are incompatible. After a few years, I found the strength to leave him. To make story short. I found a job and a man who is 8 years younger than me. I didn't expect that I am carrying a child because of what happened in my past. So, there is no definite reason why I have a child at this age. I did not do anything. What I remember is I (do) prayed hard to have a child.